Reflections on My Journey Through the Class

 Welcome back to my final blog, everyone!

This class has made a big difference in my life, teaching me so much about topics that I now think about and use every day. It has given me tools and insights that have helped me grow as a person and better understand relationships, family life, and communication. This week, instead of lessons, we focused on preparing for the final exam and completing our final project. Both of these helped tie together everything we’ve learned throughout the semester, giving me a chance to reflect on how far I’ve come and what lessons have stood out to me the most.

Looking back, some of the most memorable and impactful lessons from this class were about communication, dating, preparing for marriage, and transitioning into marriage. These topics gave me practical skills for improving relationships and showed me how important it is to lay a strong foundation for the future. Whether it was learning how to communicate effectively or exploring the different stages of dating, the lessons were both eye-opening and easy to apply to real life. As I prepare to finish this class, I am truly grateful for the knowledge I’ve gained and the way it has influenced how I think about myself and others. I’m looking forward to using these lessons to build better relationships and make thoughtful choices in the future.

For our final class, we were tasked with creating a lesson plan and teaching it to another student. This activity was incredibly impactful because it gave us the chance to reflect on what resonated most with us throughout the course and to see how our perspectives compared with those of our classmates. Interestingly, out of all the topics we could choose, my partner and I both gravitated toward the same lesson: communication and preparing for dating and marriage. As we discussed these subjects, it was fascinating to share both positive and challenging experiences related to dating and interpersonal communication.

What stood out to me the most was how seamlessly we tied the two lessons together, emphasizing the importance of clear communication in building healthy relationships. During our discussion, I asked my partner about his thoughts on dating someone who is easygoing or a people pleaser. He shared that while he enjoys these dates, he often struggles to pick up on cues about whether the other person is genuinely enjoying themselves, which can be frustrating. This insight made me think about how vital honest communication is, even in casual settings like dates. When people openly express their feelings and preferences, it helps avoid misunderstandings and creates a more meaningful connection. Overall, this activity highlighted the importance of reflecting on and applying lessons from class to real-life situations, enriching our understanding of relationships and communication.

I can’t believe this class has come to an end—it has been such a meaningful experience for me. I’ve learned so much throughout the semester and am incredibly grateful to our amazing teacher, whose lessons have not only expanded my knowledge but have also provided insights that I’ve already started applying to my daily life. One of the most impactful moments this semester was attending the devotional by David A. Bednar and his wife at BYU-Idaho, where they shared powerful insights on marriage and family life. A key takeaway for me was the idea that you don’t simply find the marriage you want—you have to create it. This really resonated with me, as it shifted my perspective on relationships and made me reflect on the importance of personal growth and teamwork within a marriage.

The notion that we often search for the “perfect” person, without considering if we ourselves are the type of person they would want, was eye-opening. It reminded me that marriage is a journey of growing together as a team, not just as individuals. Every marriage will have its highs and lows, but the key is to embrace those challenges and work toward growth together. This realization has left a lasting impression on me, and as I wrap up this class, I feel a deep sense of gratitude for the lessons I’ve learned. Not just in the classroom, but also in reflecting on these life-changing ideas. I look forward to carrying these insights with me as I continue to grow and build meaningful relationships in the future.