The Powerful Impact of Fathers

 Welcome back to my blog, everyone!

This week provided an incredible opportunity to reflect on the importance of fathers and the roles they play in our lives. It’s a topic I’ve often overlooked, perhaps because I’ve been so fortunate to have an amazing dad who has taught me countless lessons and shaped who I am today. However, I also found this subject challenging to write about, as I want to avoid sounding boastful about my experience, knowing that not everyone has the same privilege.

Many of my friends have grown up without a consistent father figure, and I’ve witnessed the profound impact this absence can have. At times, I imagine it might even lead to feelings of envy when others talk about having a supportive and present dad. This has made me even more grateful for my own father’s presence in my life, while also deepening my understanding and empathy for those who haven’t had the same experience. It’s a reminder of the immense influence fathers can have and the importance of acknowledging and valuing that role.

This week in my religion class, we touched on the concept of priesthood power, and I came across a verse in D&C 2:2 that deeply resonated with me: 'And he shall plant in the hearts of the children the promises made to the fathers, and the hearts of the children shall turn to their fathers.' I found this verse particularly meaningful because it reflects the natural inclination of children to seek their fathers’ approval or guidance in times of need.

As someone who has always been a daddy’s girl, I’ve felt this connection deeply in my own life. Being the firstborn daughter, I was often raised with expectations similar to those of a firstborn son. While that came with its own unique challenges, I believe it has greatly benefited me, particularly in the workforce. It instilled in me a strong work ethic and a determination to tackle tasks head-on, no matter how difficult they may seem.

One of the most valuable lessons my dad has taught me is the importance of perseverance—of pushing through even when a task feels overwhelming. He always emphasized that the sense of accomplishment and the rewards of hard work are so much sweeter when you’ve given it your all. These teachings have left a lasting impact on my mindset, shaping who I am and how I approach challenges.

One recent experience that reflects the influence of my dad stands out to me. Growing up, I always loved playing sports, but during my senior year of high school, I tore my ACL while playing basketball. It was a devastating moment, and I immediately turned to my dad for help and support. The road to recovery required an immense amount of perseverance and hard work, but with his guidance and encouragement, I was able to push through and heal.

This past fall, I decided to try out for the competitive rugby team at BYU-Idaho, something that felt like a big challenge after my injury. Not only did I make the team, but I also won the league MVP! The first person I called to share my news was, of course, my dad. He was so proud of me because he knew that whenever I take on something, I give it 100%. He also reminded me to call my mom and jokingly told me not to mention that I called him first!

I’ve learned countless life lessons from my dad, and I can honestly say he’s set the bar incredibly high—it’s going to be tough to find a husband as cool as he is. I’m deeply grateful for the parents I have and everything they’ve taught me, especially the discipline and values that have shaped who I am today. My dad’s ability to balance work and family life, even while starting his own business, has been such a gift. His presence in my life has been a constant source of strength, and I couldn’t be more thankful.