Family Relations

 Welcome back to my blog, everyone! This week provided an incredible opportunity to reflect on the importance of fathers and the roles they play in our lives. It’s a topic I’ve often overlooked, perhaps because I’ve been so fortunate to have an amazing dad who has taught me countless lessons and shaped who I am today. However, I also found this subject challenging to write about, as I want to avoid sounding boastful about my experience, knowing that not everyone has the same privilege. Many of my friends have grown up without a consistent father figure, and I’ve witnessed the profound impact this absence can have. At times, I imagine it might even lead to feelings of envy when others talk about having a supportive and present dad. This has made me even more grateful for my own father’s presence in my life, while also deepening my understanding and empathy for those who haven’t had the same experience. It’s a reminder of the immense influence fathers can have and the importance of a...

 Welcome back to my blog this week! This week’s focus on communication and mutual problem-solving was both enlightening and deeply personal for me. It brought attention to an area I recognize as needing improvement—especially when it comes to relationships. I’ve discovered that I am a people-pleaser, a trait that often hinders my ability to make decisions or advocate for what I truly want. I tend to shy away from expressing my own needs, fearing conflict or disapproval. Reflecting on this, I asked myself a critical question: why is communication so important? To better understand this, I made a list of reasons why developing strong communication skills is essential in fostering meaningful connections. One key reason is the ability to ensure others can accurately interpret your message. Misunderstandings often arise when messages are unclear or when elements like sarcasm are misread. Your words, tone, and non-verbal cues are just as important as the content of what you’re saying. Fo...

 Welcome back to my blog everyone! This week, Brother Williams gave an incredible lesson that resonated with me and allowed me to reflect on the personal and family stressors I’ve encountered. It was a reminder of how universal trials are—no one is immune to challenges. However, what makes the difference is how we respond to them. Life often presents us with two distinct paths: we can choose to confront these challenges with resilience, using them as opportunities to grow and become stronger, or we can allow ourselves to spiral into despair, which can sometimes lead to depression and a feeling of being lost. This choice is not always easy, but it is pivotal. One part of the lesson that stood out to me deeply this week was a quote from our assigned reading that I felt strongly prompted to share. It comes from Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, and his words carry profound wisdom and hope: "Each of us will have our own Fridays—those days when the universe itself seems shattered and the shard...

 Welcome back to my blog everyone! This week's topic was based on sexual intimacy and family life. Initially, I thought discussing this subject would be awkward, but I found it intriguing, thanks to some comments and lessons Brother William shared that I had never considered before. One question that stood out to me was, "How firm is your foundation in marriage?" Although I am not married yet, this question seemed like a profound one to reflect on. It reminded me of the primary song "The Wise Man and the Foolish Man" and what they decided to build their foundation on. The wise man built his house on the rock, whereas the foolish man built his house on the sand. This analogy made me reflect on the importance of having solid communication in marriage. Talking to your spouse about things you want to try and what you desire is crucial because they can't read your mind, especially when it comes to sexual intimacy. In our class, a book called "One Flesh, One ...

  Welcome back to my blog everyone! This week, we explored the transition into marriage and why it holds significant importance in relationships. I’ve found this class incredibly insightful, as it has given me new perspectives on the stages of dating and how they contribute to building a strong foundation for future relationships. For instance, we discussed how dating involves going on outings with various people, which allows you to learn about different personalities and discover what qualities you value most in a partner. From there, the transition into courtship begins, which involves exclusively dating one person and deepening the connection to determine compatibility. If this phase goes well, it can lead to engagement and eventually marriage. This course has opened my eyes to the purpose and progression of these stages and the role they play in developing healthy, lasting relationships. I genuinely believe that everyone could benefit from taking a class like this to better un...